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I hope you are having a nice holiday season! I’ve been busy visiting family and wrapping up a very busy work year but wanted to share a few favorites from the Christmas season to keep the cheer alive, especially as the weather in Boston has turned downright gross! Wishing you all a Happy New Year . . . see you in 2016!

Four Seasons Boston Wandering Boston and taking in the decorations at the Four Seasons

 

Old South Church Boston

Listening to choir practice and feeling thankful at the Old South Church

 Christmas lights

Driving around Milton looking at the beautiful Christmas lights Christmas tree

bubble lights

Loving the old fashioned Christmas decorations on my mom’s Christmas tree

milk and cookies Milk and homemade cookies every night before bed

kerrygold cheese  Incredible food gifts like this package from Kerrygold, makers of the best Irish butter and cheese ever. I received this as part of the Kerrygold blogger network, but we basically don’t buy any other butter ever. It’s the best.

 

family Spending so much time with my niece and nephew! I spent a week at home, which is the longest amount of time I have spent there in many, many years.

 

kitten

Cuteness from my mom’s new rescue kitten, Gabby

 

pomegranate for Champagne

wine Pomegranates and Champagne, what a delicious and festive combo!

 

IMG_1958 Christmas dinner prime rib string bean casserole Christmas dinner favorites, including prime rib with horseradish sauce and the classic string bean casserole. I love it.

Tags: Christmas, family, holidays, lifestyle, NJ, Travel

I was recently introduced to a project The Ladders is running on sharing career advice for recent college grads. It’s been a few years since I graduated from UMASS Amherst with an English degree, and I feel pretty darn lucky about the career path I have been able to take, the opportunities that have been opened up to me, and the people I have been able to work with and that I have been supported by along the way.

My class was the first to graduate after the September 11 tragedy, and the world we entered was scary and uncertain and there were lots of qualified people and not many jobs. The first job I actually interviewed for was a babysitting job, where the parents had 45 or so applicants. It got down to me and one other person. I didn’t get it because I couldn’t drive the family’s stick shift car. I find automatic to be much more comfortable anyway, and so I had my first  “It’s not a good fit.” experience.

Job hunting and forging your own career path can be scary, cutthroat, frustrating, but also so rewarding, fun, and eye-opening. For more information on my path, please check out my Professional Background page.

After lots of consideration, here are a few pieces of advice for recent college graduates. What advice would you offer?

grad cap

 

Say thank you often, and mean it.

You are above nothing. Sure you have a newly minted diploma, which you should be proud of, but always be ready to roll up your sleeves and do anything that’s needed to get a job done. Don’t lose that spirit ever; it will come in handy and it will be a trait you will come to appreciate in others.

Every job doesn’t have to be your dream job. Learn as much as you can from the job you have, even if it isn’t the job you want right then. My first job out of college was as an admin at a hospital. It wasn’t what I dreamed of when mapping out my career, but I learned how to manage in an extremely busy office setting, how to thrive in a professional environment, how to place others’ needs and concerns above my own, basic office skills, and a lot more. Oh, and by making the absolute best of it, I walked away with some excellent references that I could call on in the future.

Be open to being mentored. Heck, seek out people you admire for mentoring. I was lucky to have a supervisor at my second job who steered me more toward communications and helped me on the path to where I am now, which is working for a number of great clients on various communications projects.

Follow up. Not everyone will do this. You will have appointments and job interviews that seem great, you will put your time and energy into these things, and then you may never hear from these people again. Frankly, I find that pretty rude, and it casts a shadow on how I feel about an organization going forward. People are busy, but basic manners trump all. It doesn’t take long to write a sentence and hit send. Just do it.

It’s a very small world. Social networking makes it even smaller. This can work well to your advantage if you’re professional and polite and don’t burn bridges. Even if you are unhappy with a person or situation, walk away on the best of terms. To quote an old New York Telephone slogan that you all are probably too young to know, “We’re all connected.”  This rings true so much more now than it did in the 80’s.

Work isn’t your life. Yes, you will need to put in plenty of hours on nights and weekends, and if you’re lucky, you might even love it most of the time. There is no 9 to 5, and that’s ok. But you also need to know when your brain needs a break, when the work you are doing might be better if you walk away from it for the night. Take your vacation time. Americans are doing ourselves no favors by ignoring healthy meals, exercise, and time with family so we can crank out more work.

Learn to communicate professionally. You might feel most comfortable texting in code, but in most places, your boss won’t be LOLing if you lack the ability to write a well-written email or to pick up the phone to make an actual call.

Have fun and dream big! You are young and have so much ahead of you! There is no telling where your path might take you, so be open to change to growth, to jobs that might differ from what you imagined.

For more of my work related posts:

A Day in the Life (2011 version)

My First Interview

Job Hunting Nightmares 

The Freelance Rollercoaster

Tags: career, job hunting, jobs, lifestyle, work

Happy Wine Wednesday! A short week makes it feel a little like a Tuesday while a very busy one makes it feel like today should be Saturday. I can’t complain because it’s warm out, and I have some exciting things on the horizon.

Every now and then life shakes things up a little when you least expect it, and that can be a very good thing.  Over the past few months, several projects and consulting opportunities started to come my way, and I started trying, one-by-one to take them on in addition to my in-house role. That pretty quickly became too much for someone with only 24 hours in a day (Seriously, why can’t we add more? I want to do everything. )

Charles de Cazanove Champagne Tet de Cuvee

The final push was that one of those opportunities was in the wine industry supporting an event in one of the places I love the most in the world. The decision quickly became a clear one, and we were celebrating even before my official plans were in place. We picked up this 750 ml bottle of Charles de Cazanove Tete De Cuvee Brut Champagne at a Bin Ends event, feeling like a warm spring night and a great opportunity were more than enough reason to start celebrating. This Champagne is everything I love about Champagne; that brioche and biscuit warmth and yeastiness, loads of tiny bubbles that make you smile (and sneeze!), acidity and lemon notes, kind of like lemon meringue pie. We sat in our back yard on the swings and talked all about how life is full of opportunity and how difficult it can be to leave a place and people you really admire and respect.

In one week, I will pack it up at the place where I’ve spent the last two years, learned so much, made memories, and seen some of the hardest working people I’ve ever met, and I will be out on my own once again, a new schedule, home office, clients, and exciting work.

If you know of someone looking for a Marketing/Social Media/PR Consultant, let me know! You can find out more about my background here.  As I take this scary step, I know there can never be too much work!

I’m putting the finishing touches on my home office and really excited for the future. I know that some of my work travels will cross over into the blog, and it should be a good time all around. Thanks for sticking around for the ride.

Tags: celebrations, champagne, lifestyle, wine, Wine Wednesday, work

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