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I was recently introduced to a project The Ladders is running on sharing career advice for recent college grads. It’s been a few years since I graduated from UMASS Amherst with an English degree, and I feel pretty darn lucky about the career path I have been able to take, the opportunities that have been opened up to me, and the people I have been able to work with and that I have been supported by along the way.

My class was the first to graduate after the September 11 tragedy, and the world we entered was scary and uncertain and there were lots of qualified people and not many jobs. The first job I actually interviewed for was a babysitting job, where the parents had 45 or so applicants. It got down to me and one other person. I didn’t get it because I couldn’t drive the family’s stick shift car. I find automatic to be much more comfortable anyway, and so I had my first  “It’s not a good fit.” experience.

Job hunting and forging your own career path can be scary, cutthroat, frustrating, but also so rewarding, fun, and eye-opening. For more information on my path, please check out my Professional Background page.

After lots of consideration, here are a few pieces of advice for recent college graduates. What advice would you offer?

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Say thank you often, and mean it.

You are above nothing. Sure you have a newly minted diploma, which you should be proud of, but always be ready to roll up your sleeves and do anything that’s needed to get a job done. Don’t lose that spirit ever; it will come in handy and it will be a trait you will come to appreciate in others.

Every job doesn’t have to be your dream job. Learn as much as you can from the job you have, even if it isn’t the job you want right then. My first job out of college was as an admin at a hospital. It wasn’t what I dreamed of when mapping out my career, but I learned how to manage in an extremely busy office setting, how to thrive in a professional environment, how to place others’ needs and concerns above my own, basic office skills, and a lot more. Oh, and by making the absolute best of it, I walked away with some excellent references that I could call on in the future.

Be open to being mentored. Heck, seek out people you admire for mentoring. I was lucky to have a supervisor at my second job who steered me more toward communications and helped me on the path to where I am now, which is working for a number of great clients on various communications projects.

Follow up. Not everyone will do this. You will have appointments and job interviews that seem great, you will put your time and energy into these things, and then you may never hear from these people again. Frankly, I find that pretty rude, and it casts a shadow on how I feel about an organization going forward. People are busy, but basic manners trump all. It doesn’t take long to write a sentence and hit send. Just do it.

It’s a very small world. Social networking makes it even smaller. This can work well to your advantage if you’re professional and polite and don’t burn bridges. Even if you are unhappy with a person or situation, walk away on the best of terms. To quote an old New York Telephone slogan that you all are probably too young to know, “We’re all connected.”  This rings true so much more now than it did in the 80’s.

Work isn’t your life. Yes, you will need to put in plenty of hours on nights and weekends, and if you’re lucky, you might even love it most of the time. There is no 9 to 5, and that’s ok. But you also need to know when your brain needs a break, when the work you are doing might be better if you walk away from it for the night. Take your vacation time. Americans are doing ourselves no favors by ignoring healthy meals, exercise, and time with family so we can crank out more work.

Learn to communicate professionally. You might feel most comfortable texting in code, but in most places, your boss won’t be LOLing if you lack the ability to write a well-written email or to pick up the phone to make an actual call.

Have fun and dream big! You are young and have so much ahead of you! There is no telling where your path might take you, so be open to change to growth, to jobs that might differ from what you imagined.

For more of my work related posts:

A Day in the Life (2011 version)

My First Interview

Job Hunting Nightmares 

The Freelance Rollercoaster

Tags: career, job hunting, jobs, lifestyle, work

A Day in the Life

Lately I have been loving when bloggers share a snapshot into their daily lives. It’s not vacation or some fabulous event; it’s just the every day real side that is really interesting to me. We all know social media puts pressure on us every once in awhile, so a straightforward “day in the life” can be refreshing,

So to give you a break in my Sonoma posts (which WOULD be my every day if I had my wish), here’s a day in my life this week. I’m a Communications and Media Relations Manager for a high end hotel, and I love it. My days vary, but here’s a little peek. I would love it if you let me know what your every day looks like in the comments!

6:30 a.m. Rise and shine. . . when I work out after work I take a shower then, so that cuts a few morning minutes. I am trying to make myself get up earlier to exercise, but man is it dark out these days!

7:00 a.m. Mix up a spinach smoothie, pack our lunches and snacks, give the cats treats and get ready to hustle out the door.

7:20 a.m. Give the cats kisses and hop in the car with my husband for our commute together. Do makeup in the car, make fun Spotify playlists to wake us up and get us pumped for the day. As tired as we often are, I try to remember how lucky we are just to be going to meaningful work from a home we love.

7:55 a.m. Arrive at work. Change from flip flops to real shoes, put on my nametag, and grab a cup of coffee.

8:15 a.m. – 9:00 a.m.   Check our Tripadvisor reviews and social media channels. As a Social Media Manager, I am pretty much always on call to check our channels, so there usually isn’t a ton first thing, unless we had people engaging while I was sleeping. We love engagement!

9:00 a.m.  On Thursdays I join a team meeting where I share a report. Other mornings I am usually working on my to-do list. I am HUGE on paper calendars and checklists, and making them helps me to organize and prioritize.

10:00 a.m. On this particular day I have a phone call about a TV shoot. Media relations is one of my favorite things, so I am always thrilled to have calls with press!

11:00 a.m.  Check social media channels and respond. Spend some time seeking out engaged community members and bloggers to follow.

12:00 p.m. Draft a press release

12:30 p.m.  Respond to more emails

1:00 p.m. Lunch in the cafeteria and a quick walk along the Charles. In my earlier career days, I thought that NOT taking a break was so badass. Now I know I work better with a little sunshine and good food and levity.

1:30 p.m. Prepare a PowerPoint deck for my boss to review, work with our ad agency on creative direction and copy for upcoming ad

2:00 p.m. Prepare for our team meeting by pulling social media stats and writing a report of Marketing initiatives. Though I work with everyone on a daily basis, it’s always great to have  an official time to sit down and to share what’s going on. It’s a busy time of year with a lot of events coming up. We don’t want anyone to miss out!

3:00 – 4:00 p.m. Team meeting

4:00 p.m. 5:00 p.m. Work on website updates, write new copy, check emails, check in on social media channels, cross things off list, prepare a report for the next day.

5:00 p.m. Change into running clothes and run 3-4 miles. I took a long break from running, and it feels SO good to be back. Time off always leaves me with fresh legs and a desire to move!

6:15 p.m.  Arrive home, check work email and social channels, stretch

6:45 p.m. Start on dinner while reading blogs, usually having a dance party in the kitchen

7:30 p.m.  Eat a quick dinner, usually while checking work email or social stuff, pack dinner leftovers for the husband’s lunch

8:30 p.m.  Shower

8:45 p.m.  Sit down to blog, mayyyyyybe have a glass of wine Smile

9:30 p.m. – 11:00 p.m. Hang out with my husband when he’s not working, catch up on reality TV most of the time

11:15 p.m.  Take a melatonin, prep clothes for the next day, set alarm, and head to bed

I should note that I also eat ALL day long. I am always uncomfortably hungry so yogurt, almonds, fruit, string cheese etc make appearances all over.  Nobody wants a hungry Meghan.

Tags: career, jobs, lifestyle, Marketing, Public Relations, social media, work

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It’s been awhile since I have written a mushy, reflective post (Aren’t you glad?), but since today marks a very important anniversary that basically shaped everything I have done for the past 365 days, I had to do it. You see, a year ago today, I left behind the stability, the nice paycheck, bonuses, co-workers, free coffee, structure, budget, and warm office of a “real” job. And I love having this post to help me remember that day because the past year has been a mix of so many things. When I walked out of the office I knew so well that day without really a clue of what to do next, I was recovering from pneumonia, completely exhausted, but feeling a mix of fear and excitement that was so exhilarating, one of those feelings you want to bottle up and keep forever.

I know that there is at least one person reading who might be considering some major employment change right now, so below I share some of the standouts from the past year. If none of this applies, I apologize and will have a delicious recipe tomorrow! Smile

  • The mix of emotions when you strike out on your own will be intense and might change from hour-to-hour and definitely day-to-day. The past year has been filled with feeling elated, courageous, on top of the world, but it has also been filled with many, many middle of the night freakouts, heart palpitations and panic attacks, loneliness, regret, and downright depression. Hello being semi-employed in the middle of an endless winter! You’ll also have to grow a thicker skin or feel bad a lot of the time. Or, somewhere in the middle called being human.

 

  • The messages attached to a Yogi tea bag can definitely turn a bad day around.

 

  • People will disappoint you, big time. They’ll have you go through rounds of proposals, phone calls, meetings, get your hopes waaaaaaay up, tell you they love you and promise you work. You might even start the work, and you will definitely count on it financially, maybe even turn down other work. And then they’ll disappear, without a trace. When you really put 100% of yourself into what you do, as I tend to do, this is tough to swallow.

 

  • But, people will also surprise you. If you are incredibly lucky like I have been, perfect strangers or almost strangers who have been in the same boat will offer advice, help connect you with prospects, and generally will be there for you (like you all have been!) to remind you that you can do it.

 

  • Sometimes (often) you’ll surprise yourself. Whether it’s being way more outgoing than you ever imagined, being interviewed on live TV (an event that made me nauseous for three weeks prior), or actually learning to be patient with the way life unfolds.

 

  • Working for myself has been harder than ANY office job I have ever had. I am not a very nice boss.

 

  • You have to remember to buy your own office supplies. There’s no one out there lookin’ out for how much printer paper you have left before a big meeting. And you will miss the heat of an office, even a super hot office, when your new workplace is freezing all.day.long.

 

  • You lose some and you win some. The past year has seen my bank account shrink, but it’s also let me to develop confidence, creativity, Marketing, Social Media, and Public Relations skills and experience, along with connections, that I never would have made if I stayed in my comfy job.

 

Would I do it again? The verdict is still out. I love flexible work days, being able to throw in laundry while waiting for people to get back to me or hopping on the spinning bike during lunch on a slow day. I LOVE working from home and being able to squeeze as much out of my down time as possible. The major thing I hated about a “real” job were the times when things slowed down, and all I could think about was how much time I was wasting. Now? I fill pretty much every minute of the day with productivity, and I love it. And I really love all of the intense learning that goes on in this type of work setting and life. Even when that learning is the hard way.

BUT I am a control freak, and I like to know what’s next. As a freelancer/consultant/business owner, there is no guarantee. I guess that’s true for anyone, but even more so for the work I have chosen. If someone walks away without following through on their end of a promise, I am back to square one. I knew that leaving my full time job would mean some financial changes, and while I am insanely lucky to have a husband who helps with all of that, I am happiest when I can fully take care of myself.

There’s a lot to consider, and it will be interesting to see where year two takes me.

All I can still say, one year out, is exactly what I said a year ago, that right or wrong, I made the best decision I could at the moment. And it has certainly made my life interesting!

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