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I was recently introduced to a project The Ladders is running on sharing career advice for recent college grads. It’s been a few years since I graduated from UMASS Amherst with an English degree, and I feel pretty darn lucky about the career path I have been able to take, the opportunities that have been opened up to me, and the people I have been able to work with and that I have been supported by along the way.

My class was the first to graduate after the September 11 tragedy, and the world we entered was scary and uncertain and there were lots of qualified people and not many jobs. The first job I actually interviewed for was a babysitting job, where the parents had 45 or so applicants. It got down to me and one other person. I didn’t get it because I couldn’t drive the family’s stick shift car. I find automatic to be much more comfortable anyway, and so I had my first  “It’s not a good fit.” experience.

Job hunting and forging your own career path can be scary, cutthroat, frustrating, but also so rewarding, fun, and eye-opening. For more information on my path, please check out my Professional Background page.

After lots of consideration, here are a few pieces of advice for recent college graduates. What advice would you offer?

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Say thank you often, and mean it.

You are above nothing. Sure you have a newly minted diploma, which you should be proud of, but always be ready to roll up your sleeves and do anything that’s needed to get a job done. Don’t lose that spirit ever; it will come in handy and it will be a trait you will come to appreciate in others.

Every job doesn’t have to be your dream job. Learn as much as you can from the job you have, even if it isn’t the job you want right then. My first job out of college was as an admin at a hospital. It wasn’t what I dreamed of when mapping out my career, but I learned how to manage in an extremely busy office setting, how to thrive in a professional environment, how to place others’ needs and concerns above my own, basic office skills, and a lot more. Oh, and by making the absolute best of it, I walked away with some excellent references that I could call on in the future.

Be open to being mentored. Heck, seek out people you admire for mentoring. I was lucky to have a supervisor at my second job who steered me more toward communications and helped me on the path to where I am now, which is working for a number of great clients on various communications projects.

Follow up. Not everyone will do this. You will have appointments and job interviews that seem great, you will put your time and energy into these things, and then you may never hear from these people again. Frankly, I find that pretty rude, and it casts a shadow on how I feel about an organization going forward. People are busy, but basic manners trump all. It doesn’t take long to write a sentence and hit send. Just do it.

It’s a very small world. Social networking makes it even smaller. This can work well to your advantage if you’re professional and polite and don’t burn bridges. Even if you are unhappy with a person or situation, walk away on the best of terms. To quote an old New York Telephone slogan that you all are probably too young to know, “We’re all connected.”  This rings true so much more now than it did in the 80’s.

Work isn’t your life. Yes, you will need to put in plenty of hours on nights and weekends, and if you’re lucky, you might even love it most of the time. There is no 9 to 5, and that’s ok. But you also need to know when your brain needs a break, when the work you are doing might be better if you walk away from it for the night. Take your vacation time. Americans are doing ourselves no favors by ignoring healthy meals, exercise, and time with family so we can crank out more work.

Learn to communicate professionally. You might feel most comfortable texting in code, but in most places, your boss won’t be LOLing if you lack the ability to write a well-written email or to pick up the phone to make an actual call.

Have fun and dream big! You are young and have so much ahead of you! There is no telling where your path might take you, so be open to change to growth, to jobs that might differ from what you imagined.

For more of my work related posts:

A Day in the Life (2011 version)

My First Interview

Job Hunting Nightmares 

The Freelance Rollercoaster

Tags: career, job hunting, jobs, lifestyle, work

Or, as I tweeted yesterday, “There are lots of tears.” It has been a little over five months since I left my full time publishing job, and my life has changed so dramatically that I thought (and Cathy from Red White Boston suggested) that I should write a little update and a little advice for anyone thinking of making a major life change.

In the months that have passed I have done social media for an events website and app, worked on various small Marketing projects, done a whole lot of blogging, visited my family multiple times, traveled to Ireland, Napa, and Sonoma. I have also applied to about a million freelance, full time, and part time jobs and even internships that I never heard back from. . . which is beyond annoying because I know for certain I am 100% capable to do a great job at any one of them. I am now just starting to hit my stride as a Marketing Consultant/Blogger extraordinaire, and I am excited!

As I walked from a meeting yesterday, enjoying the first truly warm day in months, I thought about some of the lessons I wanted to share from my experience. For control freaks like me, stepping out of stability and into a world where you have work one day and none the next was a massive leap of faith and often feels like spinning out of control.

The one major thing I have learned, especially over the past few weeks is how much I love Marketing. I could never tell if it was where I worked, the structure, the subject matter, etc. or what I was doing professionally that made me unhappy. Now that I have the chance to focus on some really fun Marketing projects, I remember how much I love to work, a VERY good feeling.

Here are a few other lessons learned along the way.

1) Quitting a full time, salaried job with benefits, certain hours, a physical office and equipment, etc. is scary. Really scary. I was at my publishing job for 2.5 years, and it took me a year of planning and thinking about it to finally make the leap. I still wake up in the middle of the night at least a couple nights a week (last night being one) in a cold sweat and panic about my future.

2) Whether you decide to go down the freelance path or if you are searching for another full time job (I am currently open to both.), you might experience a roller coaster of emotions, thoughts, and even physical ups and downs like crazy anxiety symptoms, lack of sleep, lack of appetite (or desire to chow down!). Keeping in touch with friends and family by email and phone have helped me immensely to get through these.

3) Job hunting, whether it be for a full time job or new clients for consulting is an unkind process. Many, if not most, companies don’t respond to say they received your email, that they are not interested, that they need more information, that they hate you. . . nothing. The whole process could do with a bit of etiquette if you ask me, even if auto-replies and mass emails are involved. It is what it is though, and you can’t take it personally.

4) Sometimes it’s the big picture, sometimes it’s the little picture. There are days where I look and think “5 MONTHS! What have I done in all this time?!”  And then there are periods of time, like this week, where I have great meetings and hear of new projects where I feel on top of the world. And then usually I drop back down to thinking “What the hell am I doing?” again for a few days.

5) Even if you plan and save, you will likely have to cut back in some places financially. For me this has been in buying clothes, the gym, hair coloring, and things like that. I have, however, kept up with social outings because when you are alone all day, they provide sanity, not to mention good blog fodder. Smile

6) You need to make time to move! I went from walking 3 miles each day to my office and running around all day to spending days at a time in my apartment making my way from the living room to the kitchen and back. I gained weight and felt tired and unhealthy. Part of this definitely had to do with my long winter illnesses, and I am making it a priority now to build in exercise time somewhere in the day.

7) Which leads me to my second to last point, before this turns into a book. Once I started throwing all sorts of energy out there, networking, and basically shoving my skills and experience in the face of anyone who would listen, I got busy. With any luck, if you decide to go this route of freelance work, you’ll soon have to turn down work and will be looking for more time in the day. I am not quite there yet but am hoping to be soon. People will also think that working from home and freelance work = plenty of time for daily leisure. BS. I spend an average of 12 hours a day in front of my computer and on calls. I’m not sitting on the deck with a bevvie. But they won’t believe you until they’ve lived it, so don’t bother.

8) Get off your own back! My mom said this to me a few weeks ago, and my husband reminds me almost daily to stop beating myself up if a lead falls through or if I have spent a whole week trying for a certain position never to hear a word. Working for yourself or looking for a new job takes a ton of energy, and being negative about yourself just steals that energy away. This is definitely one of those cases where I should listen to mom!

Have you taken a major leap of faith or made a life changing decision lately?

Tags: freelance, job hunting, jobs, Marketing, work

Ever since I left my publishing job at the end of October, I have gotten ALL sorts of questions from people about what I am doing, why I quit, what my plans are, etc. In addition, I have encountered more than a few assumptions, both direct and implied, mostly that I quit for a permanent vacation with soap operas on the couch or to “become a housewife”.

I have been told I am “living the life”, that I am “lucky that I don’t have anything to do”, that I should “watch what I spend because I am probably going broke” and other interesting things here and there, so for today’s afternoon post, I thought I would share not just a day in my life over the past almost three months but also some other thoughts and reflections on what has been a really unique time in my life.

I have, without a doubt, learned more in the past three months of freelance work/unemployment/sabbatical Winking smile, whatever I am calling it these days than I did in many years of working for someone else.

1) Quitting my job wasn’t something I took lightly or did spontaneously. I actually planned and saved for over a year and carefully networked throughout that year to meet as many people as possible in fields that I am interested in, wine, food, and travel. I went to plenty of events exhausted, cranky, spread too thin over that year to ensure I did as much as humanly possible to create opportunities for myself.

2) I honestly thought I would be working a few part time jobs by December 1. I never thought that the response to all of my inquiries and resume submissions would be silence. I have learned that job hunting is the rudest process where the job hunter is often not given the human courtesy of even an automated response. It makes me realize that there are many companies that I actually don’t want to work for, based on their response or lack thereof.

3) Despite the above, I am happier than I have ever been. I realized the other day that what I am feeling is what it feels like to be without want. When I was working full time, I worked near so many stores and ended up shopping a LOT. Whether I would buy something small or come back from Marshall’s with five summer dresses, I spent a ton of time wanting things, which I think justified being miserable for the rest of the day at my desk. Now? I feel like I have plenty of clothes and shoes and other things. The only place I spend money, besides essentials like mortgage and bills, is for going out with friends. Now what I crave are experiences as opposed to things to keep me occupied.

4) Being a full time blogger, freelancer, and opportunity seeker is interesting. It’s the kind of work that is 98% of the time frustrating and leaves you wanting more time in each day and especially in each work week so you can do just a little more thinking, reaching out, brainstorming, or writing. It’s the kind of work where, when you get a bite, an email from a reader, interest from a potential partner, a potential project, or some other sort of recognition or possibility, that all of that frustration magically melts away, just for that one day and the excitement is ridiculous.

It’s the kind of work that never ends. At Christmas, even though I was only doing some part-time social media work, it’s the type of work that you have to do consistently, daily, to get results. And it’s the type of work that you can never give up on, ever, even late at night or early in the morning, because you are afraid you just might miss something and not be in the right place at the right time. In this type of position, I will never take a vacation without a laptop glued to my side. When I finally get the amount of work I want, it will be a 365 days a year venture, but I hope fully that it is something I love so much, I won’t mind.

All of that said, I have had some interest in what I do at home all day. In addition to lots of loads of laundry and dishes, and other household stuff here is what a day in the life looks like:

My schedule

Between 6:45-7:00 wake up & have tea

Pack husband’s lunch, general kitchen cleaning and prep for meals that take time, like marinades or slow cooker recipes

Blog post publishes

Read and respond to emails

Read and comment on blogs

Conduct various sorts of outreach and communications/Work on projects, brainstorming, outlining, depending on the day

On long run days, run at 10:30, otherwise continue the morning activities through 12:00

Eat lunch while applying to jobs (I check various sites about 100 times a day and set aside afternoon and evening for applying.)

Cook and/or bake items for blog posts

Write and publish a second blog post

On non-long run days, go to the gym or do an at home workout

Cook and eat dinner

Read a few more blogs, spend some time on blog analytics, promoting blog through social media etc.

11:30 ish– Bed

Glamorous, huh? I say it every day, I KNOW I am incredibly lucky to be able to spend my days the way I do, but they are far from shopping and sleeping in!

If you are 100% convinced you would be happier and more productive doing something else in your life, I say plan it, then plan it again, think about it, then go for it. It will surprise you how much you are capable of!

 

 

If you have a blog, do a lot of your friends/family/co-workers read it? If not, do you ever get frustrated at the amount of traffic you COULD get if they did?

Tags: blogging, employment, freelance, job hunting

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